Sunday, December 13, 2009

In Love, Being Loved & Loves








Guess after 8 years, it has never occurred to me that i would be still thinking about the definition of love.

Love.. the one thing that all mankind seek, the only thing that is said cannot be bought, and makes you do strange things, wonderful or dreadful, yet out of the world things that mere mortals cannot comprehend. It makes you happy without any reason; let other things float by unnoticeably, at times ignoring the appalling consequences.

What kind of love do we seek?

Being in love means the mutual love is shared by both.

Being loved is one without you loving back the same way as what they expect of you

Loves is when you loves someone (similar to the above)without the reciprocal feeling

Being in loves means doing things to make the other half happy, intentionally or not, without feeling any burden, just to make the other half smile.. you’d feel the warmth encapsulating your soul just knowing that they are happy, just by looking at the smiles, their laughter, not wanting anything back in return.

Not wanting anything back in return? That’s the thing, the question , because we do want something back. We also wanted to be treated that way. To be made happy. I guess sometimes it is not enough just to give love.. the feeling of being happy of giving is not enough. We also wanted love in return, wanted other to feel happy just by looking at our smile. Wanted them to feel the warmth in their hearts just by looking at our faces. Being in love..

After 8 years, personally, I wanted the love we’d shared to evolve to be more than love. What’s more than love?

The greatest love of all is beyond making the other half feeling happy. The love that inspires us to greater heights. You are inspired to become better in any way possible for love. And that is the love i seek, the one that i have now..

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